So I found this story hilarious….
BASICALLY, Ashley Madison was loads of guys, and a bunch of fake female profiles made by the company itself and other men who are pretending to be women. Why am I not surprised at all?
Sounds like these guys got burned TWICE! lol Paying for a site that didn’t have many real women on it, and now their information got leaked. Oh well…. I guess you should keep it in your pants.
So I have a first date with a guy i met already, but i dunno how to ask some good questions without the whole thing seeming like an interview. 
Lets see…. 2 guys i have scared off in the past week or so because I have Crohn’s disease. Sorry, I am sick and there is nothing i can do about it. UGH!
Just so tired of this BS!
So my 3 months were up on Farmers only. I only met one guy through it. I thought things were going well. Then i saw him loosing interest, so i have pulled away. I didn’t get super close to him, he seemed to not have any passion. He didn’t plan dates or want to take me out. I started realize i was planning everything and inviting myself over. I was done.
I don’t know why he still talks to me? I asked him this after he sent me two stupid internet photos yesterday. he said “so you don’t get lonely and u r entertaining”. REALLY? I am not here to be your entertainment…. I am not a tv show, movie, sport,etc. I am a living breathing human who wants to have a real connection with someone else.
So after things were going south, but before i stopped seeing him, i was ordering our uber on his phone and i saw a text from his brother that said “they just don’t make them like mom, do they?” in reference to me. Here’s the thing, he thinks his mom is an angel, which is great, but his dad and mom fight. From the sounds of it, he was treating me in much the way his dad treats his mom now. Now, i doubt his dad always treated his mom in that way. She probably wouldn’t have ever been with him if he did. He probably courted her, took her out, respected her and told her nice things. I know this is complete speculation, but it seems logical to me.
You can’t get an angel girl if you treat her poorly. Most girls these days that i see take less shit from guys. We want more, yes, but we have to stick up for ourselves as well.
This holds true for women as well, you can’t keep your “prince charming” (i hate that term) happy and acting like prince charming if you treat him like you don’t care.
Now, if you don’t see the potential in a relationship, please call it off before you hurt the other person too badly. Just please have the decency to do that.
My parents may have ruined me. They are still in love, treat each other with respect and they care for each other and they show it. Yes, they argue at times, but they never punch down drag out fight. They always fight with class. One lesson my mom taught me was to watch what you say when you are mad because you can’t take it back. Sorry can only go so far, but it doesn’t take away the hurtful things you have said to someone. If you need to, you walk out of the room, say it under your breath and chill out before you come back in.
In other news, I got a new phone. I decided not to download any dating apps for the first month i had the phone, which i held true to. I am back to my masters coursework and it is a part time job on top of my full time job, so i decided to keep dating on the back burner for now. Well, my best efforts didn’t last much beyond that month and i re-downloaded tinder. WHOOPS! Well, I seem to be talking to a guy who might be me in guy form!! He is a bit nerdy, loves Disney and awesome movies and shows, intelligent and has a career. He actually asked me out on a date Sunday! I am pumped.
I don’t claim to be an all knowing gramma nazi, but i would appreciate a little bit of punctuation.
Okay, so umm I guess I am feeling lonely today. I have been going to loads of country concerts and seeing loads of cute country boys. Yet, they seem to be out of grasp. I dunno, usually they are with ladies at concerts. Plus, i am with my friends having a great time (We have been in the front row the past few concerts). I am a bit stressed out. I am craving a bit more simple of a life. I am tired of reading about these guys with curly mustaches and “ironic” thrift store clothing. I dunno, sorry i am just not really into hipsters. To each their own. Its just not for me. I also have been revising my thoughts on musicians lately. I am just dreaming of a country boy.If he sings and strums a guitar, all the better…. So today I just canceled my hulu membership and signed up for farmers only. Another dating site experience. I will let you all know how this goes!
No, just no.
Okay, So with Emma Watson and others talking, the hot topic is feminism. I have never considered myself a feminist. I always sort of disliked that term. Maybe I was blind to reality though? I wasn’t personally affected by issues of inequality because the men in my life treated me as equals. I also dated genuine guys early on in my dating life. Before online dating, I thought women had come so far to being more respected by men. I knew there was still work to be done, but i had no idea it was this much. I see issues especially online, so that’s where i will address my rant.
I have been personally treated as an object online (as you have seen in earlier blogs) and I am downright tired of it. Yes, you have the right to free speech, but this many men shouldn’t be treating women in this way just because they are behind a keyboard. Here’s what i think needs to happen. We need to stop accepting the “boys will be boys” type of culture. Parents need to raise MEN and not boys who respect women and NEVER think of treating a woman as an object or just a fun sex toy.We will only be able to see a change when no woman accepts this behavior from men. Every woman needs a voice. We need to be able to say that women are worthy and not to be spoken to with such disrespect. Some women will need help for a stronger voice and I understand that.
With everything going on online lately, call me crazy but I will be much happier single than with a guy who treats me or other women as an object. Joking or not, its not really funny. I know that many guys are just looking to get a rise out of you. They want to torment and tease others. This is bully behavior and it’s not okay. I realize i have big boobs, I realize that i was born curvy and such, but your comments can be directed in a way that is respectful of me as a person, not me as an object or sex symbol. It’s just not okay.
That being said, i know there are great guys out there!! I am POSITIVE they are. 100% this is not a rag on every single guy. This is just an observation of what i have seen lately. I just want to see advancement and change in the way that women are spoken to in the online dating world. Treat us like humans please!
If you look at one thing this year… make it this. I am dying right now.
I seriously want to be the female version of this guy. Should i? Find me some tinder photos to recreate!
I just have to re blog this. REDIC!
It just never ends, does it?
Today’s interaction is with a 22 year old male, who apparently doesn’t have a head. Just a torso. It appears as though he has probably been working out for about a month or so.. slightly defined, but nothing he should be bragging about.
“Into younger guys?”
“I’m not sure what you mean by that question.”
“I mean do you want a sexy athletic 22 year old to fuck your brains out or not?”
“Why would I want that from someone I don’t know?”
“because I’m insanely attractive and it would feel so good.”
“I’ve not fucked many ‘insanely attractive’ guys that I DO know. Your logic stands to no reason.”
“Before you insult my logic reread your sentence and try to type coherent. Your logic is nonexistent”
I had a few moments of self doubt after reading that message.. But, I think my sentence…
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Cupid is on vacation 