Month: April 2014

Your Boyfriend is NOT your best friend

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Remember when i went on that rant about how your boyfriend is NOT your best friend? Its a completely different relationship. Its odd to say that they are your best friend. Apparently i am not the only one…

 

http://totalsororitymove.com/newsflash-your-boyfriend-is-not-your-best-friend/

This article argues that your boyfriend will never understand you the way a best friend can!!! Agreed!

 

There is a funny video at the end, i don’t necessarily agree with, but its funny. 

Leave me alone Ray….

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Okay so that date last week… I thought it was mutual that there wasn’t much there. 

I WAS WRONG!

he keeps texting me…

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and keeps texting….

ugh

Today he tells me that “that was not crohns this weekend. Whatever it was, it was contagious”….

UMM i think i know when my crohns is acting up, and no one else is sick. I didn’t even hang out with this guy more than an hour and i didn’t even touch him…

EITHER way, any time you accuse someone of getting you sick, that’s just rude!

Whoo, my friday night….

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Wait-why are you on here then?

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Your caption makes me want to vomit.

Oh yea, had a mundane date last night. Took me out to a japanese steak house, points for being a gentleman. Yet, he bounces when he walks…. Awkward. Then he was so nervous he was telling me all sorts of odd stories and trying to talk over me. :/ then he busts out his knife on the date (usually i am the one who does that). Bottom line: odd guy. Other bottom line: i am the one who has been single longer. Ugh!

Random Dating thoughts

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So I met a new friend this weekend and i got to talk to her about our struggles to find men. Real men! She said whats in the dating pool are leftovers. I have to slightly agree and disagree. hahah I do believe there are good guys out there!

http://www.collegehumor.com/post/6960382/this-dude-is-really-good-at-tinder

Okay, so maybe not that guy…. But you should read it for some laughs. 

 

Anyways, she told me that she went on first dates where the guy stuck her with the check! So she paid her half and left! AMEN girl!

 

So a date I had about a month ago…. He changed the oil in my car for free, which was awesome. (I brought him Jack and coke to repay that). Then he took me to a concert the next night. I thought he seemed a bit young and immature. He was just obviously a bit wild. So we are at the concert, and a lady taps him on the shoulder. It was HIS MOM. HAHA at the concert!! lol Awkwarddddd. Its okay though, he supposedly didn’t know she was going to the same concert. So then part of the way through the concert, he put his thumbs through my belt loops….We were dancing and all but it was a bit awkward. OHHHH, i forgot, he never offered to buy any of my drinks for the night… i can totally understand if he doesn’t want to pay for all of the overpriced beer that night, but to not offer for even the first round? Am i crazy on this? 

 

http://thoughtcatalog.com/christopher-hudspeth/2014/04/18-ugly-truths-about-modern-dating-that-you-have-to-deal-with/#9Ghgbb5Vr4rI3pyP.01

I was reading this article today… I don’t agree with all of them, but 

#7-“The only difference between your actions being romantic and creepy is how attractive the other person finds you. That’s it, that’s all.”

OMG!!! SO TRUE! hahaha 

8. “Let’s chill” & “Wanna hang out?” are vague phrases that likely mean “let’s hookup” — and while you probably hate receiving them, they’re the common way to invite someone to spend time these days, and appear to be here to stay.

YUP< i have heard this too many times. Add “Wanna come cuddle?” to that list.

9. “Some people just want to hookup and if you’re seeking more than sex, they won’t tell you that they’re the wrong person for you. At least, not untilafter they score your prize. While human decency is ideal, honesty isn’t mandatory.”

Honesty is a big deal with me, i wish more people thought the same… 😦

10. “The text message you sent went through. If they didn’t respond, it wasn’t because of malfunctioning phone carrier services.”

 I always say, you are not too busy to send a text, it takes about 30 seconds to send me a message. Don’t have 30 seconds? I don’t know ANYONE THAT busy. 

16. ” When dating, instead of expressing how they feel directly to you, a person is more likely to post a Facebook status or Instagram a Tumblr-esque photo of a sunset with a quote or song lyric of someone else’s words on it, and while it may not mention your name, it’s blatantly directed at you.”

HAHA we girls do this… lol 

18. “If you get dumped, it’s probably going to be pretty brutal. People can cut ties over the phone and avoid seeing the tears stream down your face or end things via text and avoid hearing the pain in your cracking voice and sniffling nose. Send a lengthy text and voilà, relationship over. The easy way out is far from the most considerate.”

Been there. It was awful to be dumped in a text. AWFUL 

 

Happy Monday Y’all!