Just some random posts today.
So umm insult my baby again. That’ll get me to go out with you….
so internet dating allows you to say more than the old newspaper ads… So say it! I’m not sure, maybe we have loads in common? I will never know….
This article is very true!!!!!
http://elitedaily.com/dating/hookup-culture-non-relationship-generation-getting-nowhere/664654/
Here is the gist with my opinions:
1. The non-date and the non-breakup. Saying “hey maybe we can hang out sometime this week” is incredibly common and ANNOYING! I know its all about keeping it casual these days, but please don’t ask me to come hang at your house as a first date. That’s not okay.
2. if you meet someone you really like, quit having the fear of missing out on something better. Please!
3. “We think that showing we care or verbalizing how we genuinely feel can lead to losing the person we’re interested in.
Whoever cares less wins… or so we think.*” I agree with this.
4. I want to feel like a priority and not an option.
5.”Many women tend to think the guy they’re hooking up with might fall for them. This is something they secretly hope will happen, and they convince themselves that a series of hookups with the same guy will ultimately lead to him wanting something more.
This lingering hope causes women to reluctantly participate in the hook-up culture, in hopes that he will wake up one day and realize it’s been her the whole time.
It reminds me of some Taylor Swift song — and accordingly, it’s a common enough problem that I’ve seen several women crushed when this dream dies.”
EXACTLY!
I am so exhausted of this crap.