Is it just me or is everyone around you that’s getting married being a bridezilla? I don’t really get it, because i have never been married, but to me the wedding is a party for the family. The marriage is what you should concentrate on. Can we stop making insane weddings with crazy budgets and think about the long term implications of it? I dunno… just my rant of the day….
I had a discussion a while back with a friend about “unconditional love”, I think its honestly just a phrase. Love inherently has conditions, you fall in love with someone because the conditions are met. If they aren’t met, you don’t fall for that person. You have in your mind the vision of some qualities in a mate that you would not date them if they didn’t have (like say religion, or not a criminal, or if they weren’t a caring person, or…). If they break those conditions later, it can lessen your love for them or even destroy it. Love is conditional. if you loved someone who cheated on you and you were mad about it, that strong love is tarnished, they have broken the condition of being faithful and trustworthy. If you hate drugs and criminal activities, and someone you love gets into criminal activities and drugs i would think your love would be damaged.
Let me clear this up, i am talking about romantic love, not family love or the love between a mother and child, etc. I think the closest to unconditional love is that of parents for their children. Yet, even then if the children repeatedly do things that the parent is not approving of and maybe even endangering to others, the love can be much weaker and some can loose it altogether.
Love is conditional, in my opinion.
Cupid is on vacation 