i guess i will just label you “blog material” and move on….

okay, i know most of you are excited to hear about my date with guy across the hall (aka Ryan). Well it was a doosey. UGH!

So Saturday he kinda asked me out, but not really…he wanted me to come out with his friends to drink at a bar. Which made it pretty clear to me that he is not all that into me. I am of the old school where if he really liked me, he would take me out just me and him. So i went anyway, he made me find him at the bar and we talked shortly.  Then i went and met his friends, i bonded with one of the girls and Ryan disappeared. He wanted to go smoke, even though weeks ago he told me he didn’t smoke. UMM that’s a BIG lie, and i hate lies. UGH!! 

He bought shots and got pretty plastered and after he wasn’t near me most of the night, was going to get a cab to his car and then drive home. I was not about to allow him to drive as drunk as he was. So i offered to take him home. He took this as i wanted to go home with him. Then he admitted that he lives with his mom (at age 27). His friend picked up some girl in the bar and took her home. On the way home he admitted he also enjoys smoking and smoking weed and has bad spending habits. He spent $90 at the bar in one night. He was just digging and digging and digging his own hole. I drove him home and he made me stop and get him steak and shake. Then we get to his house and he kept asking me to come in. I told him no, and he tried to go in for a kiss. I turned my face and he got my cheek. I don’t know how he couldn’t tell i was pissed an annoyed…. 

 

Honestly, we haven’t spoken since. My biggest problem with this whole thing? the LIE! 

Again, really?!????

As long as this guy finds me on other dating websites and asks me the same question, i will call him out on here!

And then he blocked me! Hahhaha

So after years of people asking…

i have finally started this blog. My friends have always got the chance to laugh at my ridiculous dates and online encounters. Now everyone can too.

I want to start out by saying that i think we date in a COMPLETELY different way than our parents did. Its odd these days… completely odd. I am no stranger to online dating, but the more i do it, the more i think about how unnatural and weird it actually is. The internet gives birth to weird things like catfishing (which i am very glad hasn’t happened to me), guys with no filter, and of course, porn…. readily accessible free porn changed the dating game, in my eyes. For instance, both my sorority sister and i have been contacted by the same guy on a dating site whose first contact with us read “dom or sub?”. REALLY? apparently Hello is dead, lets just go to sex. How about the guy who asked me this week if i wanted a cum shot instead of saying hello. I cant help but rip these guys a new asshole. SCUM! 

Please treat women with respect!

Note: this blog isn’t supposed to be a man hating thing, its just sometimes you wonder, what are they thinking? Are they really getting girls this way?