Lets talk about your “number” here a moment.
While in college, a guy was trying to sleep with me (we were already in bed, talking and watching a movie), he then told me how many girls he had slept with. We were 18 and he had slept with 37 girls…. immediate turn off for me! YUCK! I think i had been with 2 guys at the time. Needless to say, that didn’t win any points with me. As it may be a badge of honor with your friends, it wasn’t with me! I think most girls would say the same.
About a year or two ago, I went on a first date with a law student. It went really well, I forget how we got on the topic, but i told him the above story. He didn’t say anything at the time, but after the date texted me to tell me he had been with 48 girls. 48?!! I asked if he even remembered all those girls. He said they were “each special” to him….DOUBTFUL! He later said i was overbearing because i texted him in the morning (he texted me back) and then once around 9pm in the same day. He said more than about 2 text messages a week was too much. YEA, i ran, fast.
So i have thought about what is considered acceptable for your number. Everyone kept saying, “it depends on your age”. So friends and i came up with the age rule! If you have slept with more people than years you are old, you meet the SLUT factor. Man or woman, its crossing a line. Agree? Disagree?
p.s. i had a quite good first date last night!
Cupid is on vacation 