Okay so that date last week… I thought it was mutual that there wasn’t much there.
I WAS WRONG!
he keeps texting me…
and keeps texting….
ugh
Today he tells me that “that was not crohns this weekend. Whatever it was, it was contagious”….
UMM i think i know when my crohns is acting up, and no one else is sick. I didn’t even hang out with this guy more than an hour and i didn’t even touch him…
EITHER way, any time you accuse someone of getting you sick, that’s just rude!
So I met a new friend this weekend and i got to talk to her about our struggles to find men. Real men! She said whats in the dating pool are leftovers. I have to slightly agree and disagree. hahah I do believe there are good guys out there!
http://www.collegehumor.com/post/6960382/this-dude-is-really-good-at-tinder
Okay, so maybe not that guy…. But you should read it for some laughs.
Anyways, she told me that she went on first dates where the guy stuck her with the check! So she paid her half and left! AMEN girl!
So a date I had about a month ago…. He changed the oil in my car for free, which was awesome. (I brought him Jack and coke to repay that). Then he took me to a concert the next night. I thought he seemed a bit young and immature. He was just obviously a bit wild. So we are at the concert, and a lady taps him on the shoulder. It was HIS MOM. HAHA at the concert!! lol Awkwarddddd. Its okay though, he supposedly didn’t know she was going to the same concert. So then part of the way through the concert, he put his thumbs through my belt loops….We were dancing and all but it was a bit awkward. OHHHH, i forgot, he never offered to buy any of my drinks for the night… i can totally understand if he doesn’t want to pay for all of the overpriced beer that night, but to not offer for even the first round? Am i crazy on this?
I was reading this article today… I don’t agree with all of them, but
#7-“The only difference between your actions being romantic and creepy is how attractive the other person finds you. That’s it, that’s all.”
OMG!!! SO TRUE! hahaha
8. “Let’s chill” & “Wanna hang out?” are vague phrases that likely mean “let’s hookup” — and while you probably hate receiving them, they’re the common way to invite someone to spend time these days, and appear to be here to stay.
YUP< i have heard this too many times. Add “Wanna come cuddle?” to that list.
9. “Some people just want to hookup and if you’re seeking more than sex, they won’t tell you that they’re the wrong person for you. At least, not untilafter they score your prize. While human decency is ideal, honesty isn’t mandatory.”
Honesty is a big deal with me, i wish more people thought the same… 😦
10. “The text message you sent went through. If they didn’t respond, it wasn’t because of malfunctioning phone carrier services.”
I always say, you are not too busy to send a text, it takes about 30 seconds to send me a message. Don’t have 30 seconds? I don’t know ANYONE THAT busy.
16. ” When dating, instead of expressing how they feel directly to you, a person is more likely to post a Facebook status or Instagram a Tumblr-esque photo of a sunset with a quote or song lyric of someone else’s words on it, and while it may not mention your name, it’s blatantly directed at you.”
HAHA we girls do this… lol
18. “If you get dumped, it’s probably going to be pretty brutal. People can cut ties over the phone and avoid seeing the tears stream down your face or end things via text and avoid hearing the pain in your cracking voice and sniffling nose. Send a lengthy text and voilà, relationship over. The easy way out is far from the most considerate.”
Been there. It was awful to be dumped in a text. AWFUL
Happy Monday Y’all!
Okay, there are a few things in this world that i am NOT! One of them is a home wrecker. I believe in relationships and want them to last. I don’t go after other women’s men. That being said… Here are my friend’s Mary and Holly’s favorite dating story of mine…
So I met this guy Ryan online, he was cocky, goofy and flashy. He met up with me at the golf course i was a beer girl at. He drove a convertible and also had an SUV and wore flashy sunglasses and clothes. He was an engineer for Honda and made fairly good money. We partied at Mary and Holly’s place and slept over in a drunken stupor a few times. He took me to fancier restaurants and then we went to mid-ohio racetrack for the indy 400 race. We had a blast, stayed overnight and partied like crazy. I even ended up with a wonderful UTI as a souvenir.
After that though, our romance fizzled out so i went to his place to retrieve my sweatshirt. When i was there i was talking to him and in an excited voice he said ” My divorce goes through tomorrow!!!”, I think i laughed at him and asked why he would joke about that. I completely 100% didn’t have any idea he was even married…. He proceeded to show me his ring, wedding pictures and his paperwork…
He knew this girl 6 months, they dated in college. They then decided on a whim to get married the day they graduated college. They went to the courthouse. She wore a prom dress and they got married. Then, they went to Hawaii to visit his sister and hopefully find jobs. He got a job, right here in Ohio, so he decided to come take it and his brand new wife didn’t want to leave Hawaii. They were married less than 30 days before divorce proceedings started. Would have been nice to get that information up front…..
So yea, i slept with a married dude, and yea, my friends think its hilarious.
Sometimes you just need a little dose of UGH!!!!
This summer i went on a first date with a guy, we just decided to hit up a sports bar/restaurant that was between our places (around 15 min away from me) for happy hour. We sit down and not more than about 10 minutes later the last guy i was talking with sits down at the table two away from us. REALLY? This is the guy who i was starting to like and then he completely stopped talking to me. I then sent some really mean texts…. (some concerning his manhood, cause i can be a bitch like that at times).
So yea, i had to sit there at this first date, while staring at the other guy right behind my date the entire happy hour. GREAT! In other news, that guy was creeping on my linkedin page the other day.
Cupid is on vacation 